Short answer: no, and here’s why. While a co-ed group can be fruitful, we’ve found over the years that separating men and women creates a safer environment for sharing. As trust grows over time, our goal is to foster a space where people can freely share real-life victories and challenges. That kind of environment is best cultivated in an all-men’s or all-women’s group.

Most likely no. We usually choose one location that offers both men’s and women’s groups so couples can travel together, attend their groups, and head home together. When registering, be sure to check the date, time, and location so you can attend simultaneously.

Do you have to? No. Do we encourage it? Yes.
First, take a deep breath and relax 🙂 We would never pressure you to do anything. You will never be forced to share or made to feel guilty for not sharing. However, we do encourage you to share a piece of your story, your journey to Christ. Your testimony is powerful, and when people share their stories, it creates a meaningful experience and reminds us that we are not alone in our journey. And don’t worry, if you choose not to share, that’s completely okay. If you do want to share, we have tools to help you write your story.

It depends on the group. Some groups will have childcare available, and some will not. Please read the group description carefully when viewing the event to see if childcare is offered. 

No. No. And no.
Living on Target is designed for all Christians, at every season of life and every level of biblical knowledge. It isn’t about how much you know; it’s about how you live. Life is busy and full of ups and downs, and Living on Target helps us slow down and intentionally reflect. Are we currently living a life that is pleasing to the Lord? That kind of self-reflection is a lifelong process, and every healthy Christian should regularly practice it. 

Only if you come with a submissive heart and a desire to live a life that pleases Him. In these groups, you will get out of it what you put into it. We have seen people complete this study and walk away unchanged—and we have seen many lives transformed for the glory of God. The difference is the heart’s desire. Do you truly want to draw closer to the Lord? Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” So lean in. Seek Him fully. And allow Him to transform your heart and mind.

We understand that a 12-week discipleship group is a commitment, and we also understand that life happens. We are not about legalism. Vacations come up, kids get sick, and unexpected things occur. So the short answer is no. you are not required to attend every single week. However, we do strongly encourage you to sign up with the intention of attending all 12 weeks if possible. If you already have a planned vacation, don’t let that stop you from joining, it’s completely okay. That said, commitment matters. It matters for your personal growth and for the growth of the group. Your story, life experience, and insight are valuable, and your presence truly matters.

Short answer: no.
Living on Target is designed for everyone, and we desire every person to experience a 12-week Living on Target group. While we do require anyone who desires a leadership role in our church to first complete Living on Target, not everyone who attends is seeking to become a front-line leader. Many people participate simply to grow deeper in their walk with Christ and apply biblical truth to everyday life.

The Bible teaches that leadership in the Church should never be rushed or assumed. “They must first be tested and then, if there is nothing against them, let them serve” (1 Timothy 3:10). Living on Target gives us a biblical, relational way to walk with someone over time, not to judge them, but to know them.

Scripture also warns us not to move too quickly when affirming leaders: “Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands” (1 Timothy 5:22). Living on Target allows space for character, faithfulness, teachability, and spiritual health to be observed naturally in real life, not just in an interview.

Finally, Hebrews 13:17 reminds us that church leaders carry responsibility before God for those they shepherd. Because of that responsibility, we take leadership seriously and prayerfully. Living on Target helps ensure alignment in doctrine, values, and lifestyle while also protecting both the individual and the church.

This process is not about perfection, it’s about faithfulness, humility, and a desire to grow. Living on Target allows us to walk together in a way that is loving, biblical, and life-giving for everyone involved.

You will receive a schedule that clearly outlines what is to be completed before each session. Each week, participants are asked to:

A. Read the assigned pages in the Living on Target book first.
B. Complete the 7-day Bible study in the participant guide.
C. Come prepared to discuss, ask questions, encourage one another, and pray together.

This rhythm helps establish a daily time in God’s Word as we walk through a guided journey of Scripture together.